The Drawing Room: Tradition with an edge


There are few spaces in the home that carry as much romance as the drawing room. The drawing room is the one space that remains gloriously single-minded, as it exists purely for pleasure. The very term itself harks back to the 16th century, derived from “withdrawing room” - a place to retreat after dining, leaving behind the clatter of the table and the bustle of the household. This was the room for refinement, conversation, and music. 

Fast forward to today, and while the drawing room has evolved in both name and form; some now call it a reception room, though I still prefer ‘drawing room, it continues to embody the same sense of poise. It’s the ultimate luxury: a sanctuary untouched by the everyday clutter of family life. Unlike a snug or living room, this is not a space for TV marathons or scattered toys. Instead, it’s always immaculate, always ready to entertain guests or indeed to enjoy alone with a glass of wine and a little soft music at the end of the day. 

The Traditional Layout - Modernised 

When one pictures a drawing room, the mind often drifts to a classic arrangement: two generous sofas facing one another across a central coffee table. This symmetrical format encourages conversation and a sense of balance, a timeless set-up. But while the layout is rooted in tradition, the furniture doesn’t have to be.

Today, symmetry can be stylish without feeling stuffy. A pair of sleek, low-profile sofas in cashmere, linen or suede feel far more contemporary than the buttoned or scrolled designs of the past. Coffee tables, too, can be reimagined: swap dark polished mahogany for a monolithic slab of marble, smoked glass, or even a cluster of sculptural tables at varying heights. 

And don’t be afraid to play with the details. For instance, one sofa can be paired with two armchairs opposite, upholstered in coordinating but not identical fabrics. This introduces freshness and movement, while still retaining the formal structure. 

Expert Nugget: Bring tradition up to date with upholstery. Fabrics in petrol blue or moss green instantly reinvent a classic form. 

The Modern Lounging Approach 

For those who prefer a more relaxed energy, a modern drawing room can be styled with a “formal lounging” sensibility. Think of it as refined lounging: relaxed, but always ready for guests. Imagine a generous L-shaped sofa softened with a mix of accent chairs, or even a statement chaise or oversized bench to stretch out on. Ottomans upholstered in boucle or leather double as coffee tables and extra seating when entertaining. 

Here, the palette is often layered and tonal, think warm taupes, mushroom shades, and light biscuit tones punctuated with deep autumnal accents. Oversized artwork, sculptural side tables, and bold lighting introduce personality without sacrificing elegance. 

Music at the Heart 

No drawing room is complete without music. In centuries past, a piano was the heartbeat of the space, and it can still be a striking centrepiece today, even if not played daily. But subtle audio integration is equally key. A discreet, high-quality sound system allows background music to flow seamlessly, enhancing the atmosphere without overwhelming it. 

Soft jazz, classical, or acoustic playlists always flatter this kind of room. Music here should never compete with conversation, only enrich it.  

Lighting that Flatters 

If there is one design element to get right in the drawing room, it is lighting. Forget harsh overheads; this is a room for softness and mood. Start with a statement chandelier or pendant, ideally on a dimmer, to provide drama when needed. Then layer the scheme with wall lights, table lamps and floor lamps to create pools of intimate light. 

Candles are non-negotiable: grouped in threes or fives, their flicker is timeless and flattering. 

Expert Nugget: Place a pair of lamps on a console behind a sofa. This not only creates balance but also adds an irresistible depth to the space. 

Always Guest-Ready 

What sets the drawing room apart is its sense of permanence. While family living spaces flex and adapt, the drawing room remains poised - untouched by the noise of everyday life, always ready to receive guests. A beautifully arranged rug anchors the furniture, a drinks trolley brims with curated spirits and glassware, and art on the walls sets the tone for conversation. 

The drawing room is your home’s calling card, a statement of elegance, always ready for entertaining. And yet, it needn’t be saved solely for guests. Stepping into this room for ten minutes of solitude at the end of a long day can be as restorative as a weekend away. That, in itself, is the real luxury. 

The Finishing Touches 

  • Art: One bold, large-scale piece makes more impact than a scatter of small frames. 

  • Rugs: Ensure your rug is large enough for the entire sofa to sit on it, this ties the arrangement together. 

  • Fragrance: Each drawing room deserves its own scent. Woody, smoky notes work beautifully in autumn and winter; lighter florals feel right in spring. 

  • Drinks Trolley: For instant glamour, stock a slimline cart with cut-glass tumblers, good whisky, and elegant mixers.